Anal toys are typically used for a bit of foreplay / prep before anal sex or for anal masturbation. For women it’s not that straightforward to have an orgasm with anal stimulation so it is often just used for additional pleasure.
On the other had, men have the prostrate gland which can be stimulated via the rectum, so they are able to have stronger orgasms with the help of anal toys. (See: More about prostrate pleasure technique) The key to enjoy anal toys is lubrication and patience, use enough of a suitable lubricant and take your time! If you rush it or try to force it without lubrication you will get hurt.
The shape of anal toys varies with their purpose. Use them only after the anus is relaxed and moistened with lubricant.
They can be as small as 2cm (3/4”) in diameter and are a good starter for anal toy novices. Use plenty of lubricant on the beads and try to begin with putting one or two balls inside at first to enjoy the pleasure of anal penetration. When you get used to this, try to insert more and more balls, one by one. You can also continuously take the balls in and out. Slowly. This will take you to a new realm when you take them out while you are having your orgasm. If they do not have a pulling handle or stopper, leave at the very least two beads outside of your body to avoid losing them in your rectum!
They are called “anal plug” or “butt plug” and are worn for longer periods of time to enlarge the anus. If you’d like to have anal sex - but are afraid that it will all be a bit too tight, you can prepare yourself with a plug. They are also used in BDSM play, with the dominant role telling the submissive one to wear it for humiliation. The differences in size and design can be substantial, try to begin with as small a plug as possible and then challenge yourself to the next size.
If you're already used to anal penetration, you can try to use a vibrator or dildo. They can be used for an anal masturbation or foreplay before anal sex. The vibration massages around the anus and will give you an analingus like sensation. If you're already used to anal penetration, you can also try to use a vibrator or dildo. They can be used for anal masturbation or foreplay before anal sex. The vibration massages around the anus and will give you an analingus like sensation. DO NOT EVER use an anal vibrator or dildo to the vagina directly after using it with anal play. It will cause a serious bacterial infection inside the vagina..
These are made only for men to stimulate the prostate gland (p-spot). By using the PC muscle which locates in between the anus and testicles, it will bring you a totally different sensation compared to what you get from a penis. You might need a practice, but "Dry Orgasm", an orgasm without ejaculation, can be achieved with them. They are also known as men's health tools and used to prevent prostatitis or prostatic hypertrophy.
For beginners, try to use the smallest or thinnest one to start.